So I went ahead and flashed my Optorite DD0401's firmware to the latest version 120E in windows, (pre-updated never had a problem) and now I am unable to burn a dvd or even simulate with Nero 6.0 or 6.3 versions.
The drive reads a burnt dvd fine that I made but just fails in the burning process.
I saved the logfile and sent an email to tech support, figure I might get the original firmware for it.
One other strange thing I notice is that in my system event viewer I notice a lot of errors all pertaining to the cdrom device, saying this drive has a "bad block" and of course microsoft had diddly squat on the matter that I could find.
ok end of rant !