So here is the update:
Jen and I had the talk last night. Her and I have been datting for 3 months now and I figured I had to tell her that we either need to get together or slow down / stop our datting. In not such harsh words.
It went like this, I asked her how her datting is going and how everything is going there. She said things are going well and how she went on a double date on saturday and what not. And I was like that is good. and I asked her what the point of datting was. And she said that it's for marriage. You date to get married. And I strongly agree with that. So I told her that I can't date her as much as we have been unless we were datting steady.
We went on 3 dates last week and we talk a lot. pretty daily and what not.
She understood and told me that ever since this last guy who proposed to her that she even consider to marry she has been real garded about the whole thing, but she understands that she can't be like that cause it won't help her to that goal of some day being married. And she sees how it is important about us... she is calling me tonite to talk about it more
man i'm worried
Ready or not, lets crush them feelings