by cfitz on Tue Feb 18, 2003 8:43 pm
Wayne, please don't take it personally. Kennyshin is a good guy who contributes a lot to these and other forums, but he can't be expected to answer emails and private messages individually, nor is it fair to expect him to be your private interpreter. I don't know if you post a lot on other forums, but when one posts as much as Kennyshin (he is active on far more sites than just this), one finds that the volume of "personal" correspondence can be overwhelming. There are a lot inconsiderate people who want everything spoon fed to them, and who greedily value their own time above that of those whom they ask for favors.
I suspect that your request just happened to be the proverbial straw that broke Kennyshin's back. I can understand that you don't feel very happy being personally held up as an example of what not to do, and I can't say that I necessarily think Kennyshin did the right thing by revealing you specifically as an offender, but if you can just chalk it up to a learning experience and not a personal attack by Kennyshin.
Here is my general take on the matter:
Please post all questions in the public forums rather than submitting them directly to a member via email or private messaging (PM), unless your question is truly of a personal and private nature. It is unfair to the recipient of your question to expect him or her to give your question personal attention. Everyone is busy. And it is better for you to post publicly because a question in the public forums is visible to everyone, increasing the chances that someone with the answer will read it and reply. Finally, a public post creates a record of your question and, hopefully, the answer, that can serve as a resource for others, now or in the future, who might have the same question.
cfitz